Jersey City Connects | Lesbian 30s Speed Dating
Description
LESBIAN SPEED DATING (30s only!)
Join Jersey City Connects for a speed dating night exclusively for queer women in their 30s — lesbian, bi, trans, non-binary, and femme-identifying folks all welcome. We’re taking over AndCo North, a cozy coworking space in Jersey City, for a night of conversation and genuine connection.
No apps, no swiping. Just you, a room full of interesting women, and 5 minutes to see if the spark is there.
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WHAT TO EXPECT
- Doors open at 6:30 — grab a drink and get comfortable
- Speed dating kicks off promptly at 6:45
- 5 minutes with each person across two rounds
- Meet up to 10 new connections in one night
- Fill out your match card before you leave
- Matches sent within 48 hours — fingers crossed for your meet-cute
This event is exclusively for LGBTQIA+ community members.
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FAQS
What if I’m 29 or 40?
We keep age ranges focused so everyone’s in a similar life stage. If you’re close to 30s (late 20s or early 40s), you’re welcome to join.
What happens if I don’t get any matches?
It happens! Think of it as practice and a chance to meet people in the community. Many friendships start at these events too!
What should I wear?
Whatever makes you feel confident. Most people go casual since it’s a Tuesday night.
What are good conversation starters?
Ask about their favorite spots in the area, what they’ve been into lately, or how they spend their weekends. Keep it curious and light – you’re just trying to see if there’s a connection, not conduct an interview.
Will there be photos or videos?
No. We don’t take any photos or videos at our speed dating events to respect everyone’s privacy.
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ABOUT US
Jersey City Connects was founded in September 2021. Our vision is to be the ultimate go-to platform for adults to foster new connections, discover new places, and inspire connection, leaving a lasting positive impact on our community. Feel free to follow us on our social media platforms
CODE OF CONDUCT
At Jersey City Connects, we’re committed to creating a welcoming, inclusive, and respectful space for all attendees. By joining our events, you agree to treat others with kindness, honor personal boundaries, and refrain from any form of harassment or inappropriate behavior. This includes, but is not limited to, unwanted comments, non-consensual touching, and aggressive or unsolicited messaging, both during and after the event. We have a zero-tolerance policy for harassment and reserve the right to remove anyone who violates these guidelines. If you ever feel unsafe or uncomfortable, please reach out to a team member or email us at hello@jerseycityconnects.com. Our goal is to foster community built on safety, respect, and connection.